Club 30's "Kill The Boredom Demon" Jive Pad, 72nd Edition
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err me and my hubby have a couple of shared hobbiesOriginally posted by elindra:It's ok not having the same hobbies
You can have a new hobby together
Or learn to like each other's hobby
Just like me and MPB
But there will be hobbies you will never learn to like like MPB will never enjoy gaming and I'll never enjoy fishing
His RC hobby...well... I'm guilty for introducing it to him
*wallows in deep regret*
and individual hobbies
where we enjoy separately. -
I dont know.....i am in those typical females trap where I think i can 'change' him?
That I might interest him to do dancing, so I got a regular partner to dance with and dance sexy with?
That he might finally get into the idea of motorcycle touring and get a licence himself? (1.85 metres tall and 90kg, I will have a hard time having him as my pillion as opposed to him riding and me as pillion.)
And weapons shooting, well, he did seem interested....
I am too hopeful, aint I?
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why want to be with someone u need to put in so much effort to change?Originally posted by viciouskitty74:I dont know.....i am in those typical females trap where I think i can 'change' him?
That I might interest him to do dancing, so I got a regular partner to dance with and dance sexy with?
That he might finally get into the idea of motorcycle touring and get a licence himself? (1.85 metres tall and 90kg, I will have a hard time having him as my pillion as opposed to him riding and me as pillion.)
And weapons shooting, well, he did seem interested....
I am too hopeful, aint I?
i mean quite unfair to him too isn't it?
not to be liked the way he is? -
x 2Originally posted by Wanda:Erm...dun choose the wrong type of guys?
My o.oooo1 cent's worth.
oh, and stop flirting/sianing/whatever with so many guys. I don't think they can tell when you're kidding and when you're being serious. -
Tip:
Always find someone less fabulous than you, then you will always be more fabulous! -
yes, i may be taking the train... Originally posted by Wanda:Are you taking the train? I almost went last year...but FIL was ill.
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Hmmm.....he used to be a sous chef, so cooking might be a common ground? I still have not mastered the art of omellette.Originally posted by elindra:But there will be hobbies you will never learn to like like MPB will never enjoy gaming and I'll never enjoy fishing
We'll need a industrial kitchen?
And err.....I dont think he might be interested in sewing or cross stitching. -
Choco!......you are not helping!Originally posted by choco B:Tip:
Always find someone less fabulous than you, then you will always be more fabulous! -
Originally posted by av98m:x 2
oh, and stop flirting/sianing/whatever with so many guys. I don't think they can tell when you're kidding and when you're being serious.
http://tpadventure.multiply.com/calendar/item/10131/Choo_Choo_Photography_Trek?replies_read=4
and if u r still interested in trekking + photography... -
Well, i liked him as he is, told him that.Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:why want to be with someone u need to put in so much effort to change?
i mean quite unfair to him too isn't it?
not to be liked the way he is?
maybe he was just reciprocating by telling me how much he would want to try my lifestyle?
You know.....wanting to be liked thingy where he is giving me hope that i might like him more?
I, like elindra mentioned, has reservations about his rebound issues. -
he okay liaoOriginally posted by Wanda:
Just tell him it's a joke lah. *phew* -
Hey, I am serious EVERY TIME.Originally posted by av98m:x 2
oh, and stop flirting/sianing/whatever with so many guys. I don't think they can tell when you're kidding and when you're being serious.
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err okayOriginally posted by viciouskitty74:Well, i liked him as he is, told him that.
maybe he was just reciprocating by telling me how much he would want to try my lifestyle?
You know.....wanting to be liked thingy where he is giving me hope that i might like him more?
cos u started by mentioning how unwilling he was to really try out your lifestyle
and wondering what's wrong with him
take it easy lor.. i figure if need too much effort to spend time with each other, and get easily bored if not doing something exciting together.. also not easy to have a lasting rship -
why flirt with him in the 1st plc?
he's obviously gog thru sh.it and prob bored of his lifestyle. he just wanna some excitement NOT commitment... and frankly i think u r bored too...
no one who just casually flirting would think abt wat kinda kitchen they would need... >.< -
I am....link is broken thoughOriginally posted by ShrodingersCat:
http://tpadventure.multiply.com/calendar/item/10131/Choo_Choo_Photography_Trek?replies_read=4
and if u r still interested in trekking + photography... -
http://tpadventure.multiply.com/calendar/item/10131/Choo_Choo_Photography_TrekOriginally posted by av98m:I am....link is broken though
eh paisay
here goes... think lotusfairy also thinking abt going. -
then you realise that you're partly responsible for your problemsOriginally posted by viciouskitty74:Hey, I am serious EVERY TIME. -
Good to know.Originally posted by tare:he okay liao *phew*
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I had experience.Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:err okay
cos u started by mentioning how unwilling he was to really try out your lifestyle
and wondering what's wrong with him
take it easy lor.. i figure if need too much effort to spend time with each other, and get easily bored if not doing something exciting together.. also not easy to have a lasting rship
When this chap, we were dating seriously, says he liked dancing. And I booked him and me together for dance classes.
For the 1st class, he came terribly late, saying he was knocked down by a lorry when he was coming to class. Got bruises, scratchmarks to show for it.
2nd class, he was late again, citing work, and only stood outside the screens and watching me dance.
3rd class, i dont borther liao, but whoever guys was dancing with me or I was happily chit chatting with, he gives them death stares and acting possessive at a kopi session later. Trying to drap his arms around me, monopolising our conversation and staring at the guys when we are discussing dance moves with the guys.
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Originally posted by tare:no one who just casually flirting would think abt wat kinda kitchen they would need... >.<
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Oh Choco, if you're in town, there's lots of CNY goodies sampling at bugis junction.
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Haha it is true wad
A MORE interesting man might not find you interesting!Originally posted by viciouskitty74:Choco!......you are not helping! -
He really is a nice chap lah.Originally posted by av98m:then you realise that you're partly responsible for your problems
I only hope he wouldnt just lie about all those lifestyle choices just to get in my good books.
I liked him as he is, but I cannot stand liers, even if its just to get into my good books.
Its like, if you like me, fine, lets get with it and see how it goes.
Just dont try to pretend you can handle my pace.
Its like that chap, who tells me he can dance, and I will be impressed with his dancing.....
But all he can do is maybe the chicken wing flap.
And he turns around and says I am lame for wanting a Fred Astire. -
Thanks hon. What brands are there?
I am about done with the CNY goodie shopping. No visitors anyway so can't finish that much.
Originally posted by Wanda:Oh Choco, if you're in town, there's lots of CNY goodies sampling at bugis junction.