Originally posted by Fatum:be "Xiao Sa" ! ....
come to think of it ... what's the english equivalent for the word ? ......
anyone ? ...
actually err really xiao sa won't need to delete phone numbers one lo
walk away............just walk away.........
Up to now i have never really met a friend who made me so angry until I want to call it quits la... Hmmm~
let me think.. I guess the worse thing that ever happened for me to lose a friend ... I tried to talk it out first, but the issue was not resolved. And slowly slowly, we just got busy, attempted to meet up a couple more times, but I think both parties realise that our perspectives and values are so different that it has become rather strained.. and slowly slowly in the current of life, we just lost contact. Just a gradual drifting apart.
If I am really unhappy about something, I will talk it out. But it takes a lot to make me SERIOUSLY unhappy about anytihng la :P
Really depends on what is the matter, and how close the friend is...
But a personal 'principle' that I try to follow, since it is very difficult to not GOSSIP entirely cos sometimes u just need to complain to let off steam - I do not rant to people in the SAME social circle as the friend I need to complain about. So they don't mix and it isn't unfair to them also, to make other people biased simply cos I need to release steam la.
So far I haven't come across a friend who made me lose temper yet. Those who did weren't my friends in the first place.