Club 30's "Kill the Boredom Demon" Jive Pad, 89th Edition
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Originally posted by viciouskitty74:
Its not necessary about upbrining.
Was watching on the bus, the tv mobile thingy where local counsellors & psych doctors was helping with some families with kids that cant seem to behave.it was enlightening that any child's behaviour is inherited and redirected for better behaviour.
Actually I think kids do take after their parent's behaviour lehLike my good friend's son really like her lor. Like to pout and very expressive. Just like her :O
Then another friend's son also like her in personality. Very quiet and not as expressive and extremely gentle
OMG does that mean I'll produce a monster @@
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Originally posted by elindra:
But it's quite scary lor
I see my friends have a kid liao
Everything centers around their child :O
Is that what will happen to me too
It's very scary >.<"
erm.... yah...when i 1st have bubble, few mths i nvr go anywhr or do anything tat's not abt him... didn't even go holidays for few yrs cos worry no one take care of him mah... we didn't trust pet hotels...
my gfs who have kids told me they nvr step into a cinema for yrs... >.<
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Originally posted by Fatum:
just as the sins of the fathers should not be visited on the children ....
I don't think one should attribute a child's behaviour on the parents ...
That cannot be right lehIf the child does something wrong and the parents don't correct that behavior, it IS the parents fault!!
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going to plan a child based on horoscopes too?
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Originally posted by elindra:
That cannot be right lehIf the child does something wrong and the parents don't correct that behavior, it IS the parents fault!!
what I'm saying is, a child can still turn out bad despite the parent's best efforts .....
it probably wouldn't be for the lack of trying ...
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Gaahhhhh!!!!!!!!! Now a electrical relay circuit in my experimental setup has failed!
WHAT'S NEXT? WHAT'S NEXT!?!?!?!?!?!
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Originally posted by fudgester:
Gaahhhhh!!!!!!!!! Now a electrical relay circuit in my experimental setup has failed!
WHAT'S NEXT? WHAT'S NEXT!?!?!?!?!?!
would it be murphy's fault .....
or just your ............
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Originally posted by Fatum:
what I'm saying is, a child can still turn out bad despite the parent's best efforts .....
it probably wouldn't be for the lack of trying ...
Oh than that one is different liao
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I guess its safe to mention here.
fren and i was having a conversation on msn this morning.
he is a proud father of 2 boys. Both kids are a year old. different mothers.
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Originally posted by fudgester:
Gaahhhhh!!!!!!!!! Now a electrical relay circuit in my experimental setup has failed!
WHAT'S NEXT? WHAT'S NEXT!?!?!?!?!?!
why not stay away from electrical stuff for a while? can you get someone else to physically do experiments for you while you be commander-in-chief giving step-by-step?
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Originally posted by viciouskitty74:
I guess its safe to mention here.
fren and i was having a conversation on msn this morning.
he is a proud father of 2 boys. Both kids are a year old. different mothers.
So is he still married to his wife and does the different mothers know of each other? -
Originally posted by fudgester:
Gaahhhhh!!!!!!!!! Now a electrical relay circuit in my experimental setup has failed!
WHAT'S NEXT? WHAT'S NEXT!?!?!?!?!?!
-pat pat-
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Originally posted by stellazio:
fatum, this year commando sling was held in singapore..
its cope tiger that is the yearly exercise between the US and Thai airforce..
but this one i'm going for in 2 weeks time is a live drop exercise..97 a day in thailand, guess where most of the people's allowances are going to?
wonder if my friend is going? so the indonesia trip was part of built up to this? -
Originally posted by viciouskitty74:
I guess its safe to mention here.
fren and i was having a conversation on msn this morning.
he is a proud father of 2 boys. Both kids are a year old. different mothers.
if he's PROUD of tat, he's a jerk.... -
Originally posted by elindra:
So is he still married to his wife and does the different mothers know of each other?
Sigh, thats why i was trying to ask and tell him.He is keeping both mothers away from each other and providing for them.
No, he is not married to either of them.
And both mothers does not know that the other exists.
i was just trying to remind him that the fall-out may be horrible. But he is very convinced that as long as he provides for them, there will no fallout. He is also planning on abandonement if things do flare up.
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sigh so many PRCs everywhere....
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Originally posted by viciouskitty74:
Sigh, thats why i was trying to ask and tell him.He is keeping both mothers away from each other and providing for them.
No, he is not married to either of them.
And both mothers does not know that the other exists.
i was just trying to remind him that the fall-out may be horrible. But he is very convinced that as long as he provides for them, there will no fallout. He is also planning on abandonement if things do flare up.
WHAT A BASTARD!!!!
KNS and he can get 2 women to have a baby for him when they are not married to him? Sibei slick leh this guy.
Are they both Singaporeans or in different countries
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Originally posted by tare:
if he's PROUD of tat, he's a jerk....
Jerk as he is. At least he is providing for the mothers and children now. At least he didnt run away and pretend nothing has happened. -
Originally posted by viciouskitty74:
Jerk as he is. At least he is providing for the mothers and children now. At least he didnt run away and pretend nothing has happened.Yeah but he wants to take cover if things blow up too
So he is still a JERK
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Originally posted by elindra:
WHAT A BASTARD!!!!
KNS and he can get 2 women to have a baby for him when they are not married to him? Sibei slick leh this guy.
Are they both Singaporeans or in different countries
All three of them is Singaporean.But he is rich. Self made man, so that about solve some difficulties.
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Originally posted by viciouskitty74:
All three of them is Singaporean.But he is rich. Self made man, so that about solve some difficulties.
Ok I get the picture nowWoman thinks that since he is rich, sooner or later he will give her child a name and she gets to marry a rich guyBut she didn't know there is another woman in the pictureSo this will definately blow up if she knows of the other woman and vice versaAnd the guy can just pat his butt and walk away since he don't owe them anything since he is not married to any of themThe most he say is I'll give you a monthly allowance for the child and walk out of the door -
Originally posted by viciouskitty74:
Sigh, thats why i was trying to ask and tell him.He is keeping both mothers away from each other and providing for them.
No, he is not married to either of them.
And both mothers does not know that the other exists.
i was just trying to remind him that the fall-out may be horrible. But he is very convinced that as long as he provides for them, there will no fallout. He is also planning on abandonement if things do flare up.
absolutely wrong conclusion. providing for them financially does not equate to no fallout.
i really pity the kids - they'll be the ones bearing the brunt of things when adults tear at each other (which i'm quite sure will happen).
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The thing is, this guy has a wonderful family. His own parents love each other and was a good example of responsibility & love to him.
And he has his parents blessing for this situation.
I just hope that he can tell both the mothers the truth and work from there instead of hiding them away like that.
The funny thing was, last night I was out with biker friends, but one in particular sought my help to locate his son. He was in NS and his gf had his kid. They both lost contact after a while and he wanted to know how his son are now.
And I was again reminded how my father abandoned us.
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Originally posted by cassie:
absolutely wrong conclusion. providing for them financially does not equate to no fallout.
i really pity the kids - they'll be the ones bearing the brunt of things when adults tear at each other (which i'm quite sure will happen).
I did try to tell him that. Especially since most sg girls i've seen behave that way. it would have been easier if they knew about each other and accept that status quo and grow from them. -
Originally posted by viciouskitty74:
The thing is, this guy has a wonderful family. His own parents love each other and was a good example of responsibility & love to him.
And he has his parents blessing for this situation.
I just hope that he can tell both the mothers the truth and work from there instead of hiding them away like that.
-_-"No comments liao if his parents think that it is ok for him to be in this situation