Originally posted by viciouskitty74:LF that scary?????!
She said one mah! Loud-loud somemore!
If you make her angry, karma will come after you!! She's mightier than Godzilla, IMO! When we meet her, we'd better all wear Tena pads in case we scared until 'accidents' happen!
Originally posted by Rhonda:Sometimes, I feel overwhelmed... so many demands, only one salary. I can't even work extras now because I'm not a fully-qualified ICU staff yet (because I don't have the extra alphabets behind my name yet) and I can't work extra agency shifts because I don't have my PR yet.
It's a lot to handle for one person...
*hugs*
One step at a time.... one baby step at a time.....
In the mean time you just have to know how to differentiate your needs and wants.
You should get your PR pretty soon now since it has been in for a few months.
Hang in there, missy.
Sometimes when I talk at work, I find myself thinking, "Eh! How come the English accent so polished nowadays?!"
I think I got tired of repeating myself to Aussies who aren't acquainted with other accents. And on top of that, if you speak good English with a decent accent, you kinda get a little bit more respect.
VK, when you're in the US, you adopt a different accent too, right?
Originally posted by honeymouse:*hugs*
One step at a time.... one baby step at a time.....
In the mean time you just have to know how to differentiate your needs and wants.
You should get your PR pretty soon now since it has been in for a few months.
Hang in there, missy.
Not really... they are STILL processing December 2007's applications!!
Originally posted by honeymouse:*hugs*
One step at a time.... one baby step at a time.....
In the mean time you just have to know how to differentiate your needs and wants.
You should get your PR pretty soon now since it has been in for a few months.
Hang in there, missy.
Shopping and eating are my defence mechanisms against depression. At least, it's not gambling / drugs / alcohol / promiscuity.
Originally posted by Rhonda:This kind of thing would never happen to me because I'm too outspoken and I will fight back! I'm not the Lin Dai Yu / Ye Bao Yu kind, sit there, cry and be long-suffering, and then wilt a long drawn-out and miserable death!
Sometimes, I think that in times of war, I might be one of those ruthless leaders.
i'll probably walk outta the marriage way way before then. probably after the first abuse. other news...am spending the day on an totally irrelevant and zero-connection-to-my-work course. and i voluntarily siged up.
that's coz the course is 10 CPE points and i need 20 for the year. actually it's not too bad since i learn something different. and i haven't dozed off, well at least during this morning's session.
Originally posted by cassie:
i'll probably walk outta the marriage way way before then. probably after the first abuse. other news...am spending the day on an totally irrelevant and zero-connection-to-my-work course. and i voluntarily siged up.that's coz the course is 10 CPE points and i need 20 for the year. actually it's not too bad since i learn something different. and i haven't dozed off, well at least during this morning's session.
the next course i'm going for is a "counselling course"
it's next week.. fricken hilarious coz the counselling i do for my staff when i had people under me was a mixture of telling them what to do and asking wtf were they thinking of...
Originally posted by Rhonda:
Shopping and eating are my defence mechanisms against depression. At least, it's not gambling / drugs / alcohol / promiscuity.
I like to eat when I am feeling stressed too. I do sometimes go to the shop but most of the times just window shopping. I don't enjoy shopping like I used to anymore.... not sure why.
Originally posted by cassie:
i'll probably walk outta the marriage way way before then. probably after the first abuse. other news...am spending the day on an totally irrelevant and zero-connection-to-my-work course. and i voluntarily siged up.that's coz the course is 10 CPE points and i need 20 for the year. actually it's not too bad since i learn something different. and i haven't dozed off, well at least during this morning's session.
What course?
I also did think that I still have a long way to go before I finish my studies. First up, post-grad diploma, but you never know... a Masters next?
If so, then it's best to be single...
.....................just finished reading LF's story
Originally posted by honeymouse:I like to eat when I am feeling stressed too. I do sometimes go to the shop but most of the times just window shopping. I don't enjoy shopping like I used to anymore.... not sure why.
Because your resources are now channelled into your home. When you have a goal to save for, you usually fare better.
I don't get it
Even if you don't allow someone out of the house
There are a lot of things you can do
I mean her family will just guai guai listen and say you can't visit your daughter one meh
Plus there are so many ways like calling 999 late at night and what not
Originally posted by Rhonda:Sometimes, I feel overwhelmed... so many demands, only one salary. I can't even work extras now because I'm not a fully-qualified ICU staff yet (because I don't have the extra alphabets behind my name yet) and I can't work extra agency shifts because I don't have my PR yet.
It's a lot to handle for one person...
*pat pat* you know you do have a few friends here at the very least.
But think about it this way
Wouldn't the karma the girl's family get in return be worst??
Originally posted by the Bear:
the next course i'm going for is a "counselling course"it's next week.. fricken hilarious coz the counselling i do for my staff when i had people under me was a mixture of telling them what to do and asking wtf were they thinking of...
If the Cult Leader and the Bear were to ever have to work together, it'll be like the Feng1 Yun2 (Stormriders) show... a giant sword and a mammoth sabre! Bzzzzzzhhhhing!!!
Originally posted by the Bear:
the next course i'm going for is a "counselling course"it's next week.. fricken hilarious coz the counselling i do for my staff when i had people under me was a mixture of telling them what to do and asking wtf were they thinking of...
it's very easy.
my sis and i used to play 'counsellor'. one would lie on a couch and say 'i feel really shitty' or something. and the other would reply with a 'so how are you feeling today' 'what seems to be the problem'.
Originally posted by av98m:
*pat pat* you know you do have a few friends here at the very least.
Yeah... I do know. Thankfully, time has eroded away the shallow 'friendships' whilst the true friends have weathered the test of time. For the latter, I am eternally grateful!
(Even though one of the buddies quite atas one... wanna give her fish also she atas!
Originally posted by Rhonda:What course?
I also did think that I still have a long way to go before I finish my studies. First up, post-grad diploma, but you never know... a Masters next?
If so, then it's best to be single...
equity valuation but i'm a fixed income person. equity and fixed income are opposite ends of the rope!
hmm...now that you mentioned it...maybe i should think about whether to get a doctorate. even if my only excuse is taking a 2-year break/holiday from work. anyway, am off now for the afternoon session.
Originally posted by Rhonda:(Even though one of the buddies quite atas one... wanna give her fish also she atas!
Originally posted by Rhonda:VK, when you're in the US, you adopt a different accent too, right?
Cant say I picked up, cos I always spoke with a twang in Singapore since secondary school.
Can say there was some fine tuning done to that twang to sound like I've been living in USA for 2 years or so.
I still cannot understand what my sister is sayiing most times. Her twang and speed of speaking is almost unrecognisable.
Originally posted by Rhonda:Because your resources are now channelled into your home. When you have a goal to save for, you usually fare better.
Everyone has a goal. You have a goal too... don't you? Cheer up missy.
Look forward to the BBQ we are going to have on 8/11. May be we can go yum cha the weekend before.....
Originally posted by udontknowme:it's very easy.
my sis and i used to play 'counsellor'. one would lie on a couch and say 'i feel really shitty' or something. and the other would reply with a 'so how are you feeling today' 'what seems to be the problem'.
but i'm going there to sleep..
this is a wayang course.. half a day.. probably telling us the tell-tale signs of people in distress or people who are whacked out..
i feel like telling them that my boss is a raving lunatic and needs electrotherapy and also a lobotomy...
Sorry my replies re late.
Went to take in the dried laundry and put on the bamboo poles a new batch of laundry.
While dong that chore, I keep thinking about my last night class. I have a kinda ancient teacher for my class. he travelled to thailand often to finish his language studies and is now teaching and occasionally bringing old folks to tour thailand.
at the last of our lessons, we were taught how to differiate normal friends, lovers & husband wives thingy.
the teacher does not understand about gay thingy. he keeps thinking that if a person is gay, that person goes for a ladyboy.
To him, he does not see gay man to man relationship or female to female lesbian relationship.
Originally posted by viciouskitty74:at the last of our lessons, we were taught how to differiate normal friends, lovers & husband wives thingy.
normal friend = no sex
lovers = free sex w/o obligation
spouse = obliged to have sex hahahahahahaa
so fast 100th edition!!