Bitten by PDMM, would you sympathise with this chap ?
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Newly Wedded PRC PDMM forces man to will over house to wife and step daughter, buy insurance, apply for PR, and opened massage parlour under his name ....
"Obviously, she marries me not because she loves me. Not only did she secure all benefits to this marriage, she exploited me and opened a massage parlour," 48-year-old Su told Wanbao.
Mr Su is a factory operator, and this is his second marriage.
He met his current wife at Chinatown in 2006.
"She brought her daughter of about 10 years along to Singapore to pursue an education. She was working at a massage parlour in Chinatown, and had approached me on the street with massage services. We even went to a hotel together after that," says Mr Su.
According to Mr Su, he was mesmerised by her beauty, and would frequently visit her in Chinatown every week.
The two grew intimate.
Early this year, his Chinese wife suggested that they register their marriage, and both decided on September.
He did not expect her to show her true colours just one month into their marriage.
"She even insists that I put her name as well as her daughter's in the housing deed. I regret marrying her," Mr Su expressed.
Mr Su noted that his wife had used his name and documents to open a massage parlour, and hired female masseuses without work permits.
When he found out about her illegal acts, she threatened him with a knife.
He said that he was afraid that his wife was dragged into this business unknowingly, hence had gone to cancel the license of the shop.
His wife got very angry.
"Luckily, our argument was overheard by the neighbours, and they came just in time to stop us," Mr Su said.
Ever since this incident, Mr Su reported that he was physically abused by his wife every night, resulting in a physical and mental breakdown.
She spent over $100,000 of his husband's money
In a rare streak of luck, Mr Su won the lottery four times in a year, winning over $100,000, but this sum had been squandered by his wife, he said.
To sustain her infinite demands, he even applied for a credit card and a personal loan for his wife.
As a result, he was now burdened with debts.
"When we weren't married yet, I gave her $1,000 every month as allowance. I was also responsible for her daughter's school fees and all living expenses, spending over $4,000 on the mother and child."
http://www.divaasia.com/article/1026
Do you feel sorry for the chap ? ......
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is the law able to take any action against her, since she's involved in illegal businesses?
sigh.. the heart is deceitful above all things, who can understand it? but i will try not to sterotype and remain watchful..
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frankly nope... who ask him so stupid and only think with the wrong head?
she solicite "massage svc" on the street and they ended up in hotel thrafter... shouldn't tat tell him something? duuuuhhh~~~~
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No sympathy if he thinks with the wrong head. That's what happens if one prefers the cheeeeeebye to money.
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PRC women know how to put up an act, know the right things to say to the kind of weak men who want demure submissive wives who will obey them blah blah blah then after the papers are signed, makan!!!!! There are many MOBs who show their true colors after marriage too. so beware!
I do feel sorry for the poor bastard.
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this type of incident quite common leh... always old men find young china/foreign wife then end result bank account tio drained...
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orbi, fucking dumb lao tiko tio scammed.
48 year old factory operator think people will "love" you ah, esp those ah tiongs? all after your marneh only la.
old men in SG should wake up their fucking idea...esp those PDMM at chinatown area..knnz
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orh bee.
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Wah, win lottery 100K.
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No, I don't. He should have spotted the warning signs.
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i dun feel sorry for him but i thank him for his valuable true life experiences to share.
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well ... I'm of two minds about this one ....
I said this before ... that poor people have poor options .....
chap's a blue collar worker, a factory worker well past his prime .....
what option does he have ? .... what chance has he got at "true love", having failed once at marriage ? ....
maybe I've read too much of steinbeck, but really ... how often do men visit "pros" to get a bonk, but were really looking for something other than sexual gratification ? ....
we human beings crave being close to another human being, to be close to another person ... that, is essentially what love is ... even if that is the short time, unsatisfying, sordid affair one gets from someone who sells her body for money ......
shucks, maybe I've drank too much .... but of course ... the actions of the PDMM, is a lot harder to excuse ......
I'm sure he won't be the last man to fall prey to such predators ...
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Love Is Blind
And Stupid Also.
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well he can try sucking his balls now
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For a factory operator, he can give her 1000 bucks monthly allowance!
Wow he must have been eating grass every month
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Originally posted by elindra:
For a factory operator, he can give her 1000 bucks monthly allowance!
Wow he must have been eating grass every month
maybe he's the operations manager lah...a lot of thse reporters quite no standard one, anyhow write. -
Originally posted by av98m:
maybe he's the operations manager lah...a lot of thse reporters quite no standard one, anyhow write.
Yeah I know I have firsthand experience with them that I even called them up to say how come can get ppl's name wrong and change my genderhahahahha
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He should have just stuck to the lottery - look at his winning streak there vis-a-vis love/marriage. Somehow I agree with KB re the warning signs.
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You cannot save stupid people from their own stupidity
He could have gone to the police, annualled the marriage and done something to save himself. Now I only see what whatever he's saying as complain. I will not sympathize with the fellow but think that he's just giving himself excuses and whinning. He deserves what he is having for making bad choices. I also wonder how his 1st marriaged dissolved. His actions and the current results points to me something in his character.
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Originally posted by maurizio13:
Love Is Blind
And Stupid Also.
I always say Love is blind.
Marriage will open your eyes.
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Hey, he said he's a factory operator, means he operates a factory. Why no $$ to give $1000/mth? Don't look down on pple ok.
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In a rare streak of luck, Mr Su won the lottery four times in a year, winning over $100,000, but this sum had been squandered by his wife, he said.
Wow
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feel sorry for him but at the same time think he deserved it. from the start warning sign all there liao but he still choose to go in.
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I think he would have had better luck marrying a vietnamese or indonesian bride.
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Originally posted by Rock^Star:
Hey, he said he's a factory operator, means he operates a factory. Why no $$ to give $1000/mth? Don't look down on pple ok.
-_-"They would have called him a Business Owner or Businessman if that was the case