Just came back from a meet up with a friend ......
and I just got to hear about this ......
my friend X ... one of the nicest, the most steadfast, the most easy going, the most even tempered friend I've had the good fortune to know, just got engaged to a girl ....
unfortunately, there's a little fly in the ointment ...... the lucky girl in question was afflicted with a disability, she's got cerebal palsy, and paraplegia ....
but as they say .... true love knows no boundaries ....... they got engaged recently, and I guess they'd get married soon .....
I dunno how that would affect their lives together, and their chances of having offsprings .... but I'll be praying for their happiness ....
this is such a touching story it gives you that sweet, sour feeling in your chest and you feel tears welling up .....
In his own words .... she makes his life worth living for, nothing else matters ....
I guess this is what true love is .... to quote the bard ....
"love is not love, which alters when it alteration finds,
nor does it bend with the remover, to remove ....
Oh no, it is an ever fixed mark ....
which looks on tempests .... and is never ... ever .... shaken ........ "
Here's to my friend X ..... you're a good man buddy ... I'm so glad you've found the love of your life .....
What a sweet story before Christmas.
I wish the both of them happiness :)
Originally posted by Fatum:
Just came back from a meet up with a friend ......
and I just got to hear about this ......
my friend X ... one of the nicest, the most steadfast, the most easy going, the most even tempered friend I've had the good fortune to know, just got engaged to a girl ....
unfortunately, there's a little fly in the ointment ...... the lucky girl in question was afflicted with a disability, she's got cerebal palsy, and paraplegia ....
but as they say .... true love knows no boundaries ....... they got engaged recently, and I guess they'd get married soon .....
I dunno how that would affect their lives together, and their chances of having offsprings .... but I'll be praying for their happiness ....
this is such a touching story it gives you that sweet, sour feeling in your chest and you feel tears welling up .....
In his own words .... she makes his life worth living for, nothing else matters ....
I guess this is what true love is .... to quote the bard ....
"love is not love, which alters when it alteration finds,
nor does it bend with the remover, to remove ....
Oh no, it is an ever fixed mark ....
which looks on tempests .... and is never ... ever .... shaken ........ "
Here's to my friend X ..... you're a good man buddy ... I'm so glad you've found the love of your life .....
True love indeed.
Though the girl may suffer the misfortune of a disability, he found himself a man who is willing to love her wholeheartedly and unconditionally.
I wish the best for them and may they see through their challenges ahead bravely.
That's so touching. May they both be happy together forever
If you guys duno what paraplegia is, it is the impairment of motor/sensory functions of the lower extremities. May be serious or very mild. Sometimes you wont even notice that the person had cerebral palsy.
Cheers to true love! Give them their blessings. Thanks fatum for sharing with us.
ps: to other girls, too bad, another great guy taken already.
feel happy to hear this :)
and most of all for your friend, for being able to see beyond the external
and by his example, to remind us not to focus on the disability but the ability.
Every fairytale ends up in misery and the guy will regret this decision. And I will smile with glee on that day.
Originally posted by TheAyatollahofRock&Rolla:Every fairytale ends up in misery and the guy will regret this decision. And I will smile with glee on that day.
Why don't you simply fuck off? You're just a wannabe failing to emulate a has-been of an actor, and your attitude won't get you anywhere especially since it's a desperate attempt to overcompensate for your miserable, insecure excuse of an existence.
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I guess this is what true love is .... to quote the bard ....
"love is not love, which alters when it alteration finds,
nor does it bend with the remover, to remove ....
Oh no, it is an ever fixed mark ....
which looks on tempests .... and is never ... ever .... shaken ........ "
Hey... one of my favourite sonnets!
Originally posted by TheAyatollahofRock&Rolla:Every fairytale ends up in misery and the guy will regret this decision. And I will smile with glee on that day.
Dont be so zek ark leh. Be nice before Xmas. If not, santa no gib u pressie.
Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:Hey... one of my favourite sonnets!
yeah ....
#116 ....
mine too ...
hey TheAyatollahofRock&Rolla, pls watch yr words! u r not supposed to talk n shame some1 like that!
I think it takes a very brave man to jump into something like this with eyes wide open ........
it's quite a bit different from standing by one's partner when something bad happens later in a union .......
yeah it's the sort of story that helps everyone continue to believe tt true love exists. thanks so much for sharing. wish them all the best. :)
Originally posted by TheAyatollahofRock&Rolla:- just a lonely, pathetic kid with too much time on his hands during the school holidays -
hey, what's up with you? are you okay? all ur posts are so hostile.
do you think it's right of you to insult other pple like this?
if u are angry wif ur own life, pls do smth abt it, or get the help u need. or u can let us know what prob u're facing.
cos right now, u seem to be just denying ur own feelings... and projecting ur own feelings of worthlessness on other pple...
have u heard this proverb before? one finger pointing at others, three fingers pointing at urself...
nice touching love.
my ex classmate who also has cerebal palsy and paraplegia , also found a girlfriend recently.. aside from his speech and motorskill problem, he thinks like any normal person. but his girlfriend has to be very patient, cause he takes ages to say one sentence, and he cant do simple tasks like opening a can of coke. but i have to say, having a girlfriend changed him alot, he used to suffer from depression, now he is a much happier person.
ya yr friend is a angel from heaven give the the girl by the God
if this is truth
unlike some1 that recently post his GF is consider rape by her -EX BF and now he find her cheap...... and feel he cant have sex with ehr when her -ex can ......
this man is just after her body for sex ....
make sure u treasure this friendship well
Originally posted by lovegoddes:my ex classmate who also has cerebal palsy and paraplegia , also found a girlfriend recently.. aside from his speech and motorskill problem, he thinks like any normal person. but his girlfriend has to be very patient, cause he takes ages to say one sentence, and he cant do simple tasks like opening a can of coke. but i have to say, having a girlfriend changed him alot, he used to suffer from depression, now he is a much happier person.
is that how it is for all cerebal palsy cases ?
I have never met the girl before, only seen her through some facebook pictures. She looks ...... normal ....
Originally posted by Fatum:is that how it is for all cerebal palsy cases ?
I have never met the girl before, only seen her through some facebook pictures. She looks ...... normal ....
i'm not exactly sure if its for all cerebal palsy cases or for just the milder kind. he looks perfectly normal. its only movement problems.. besides not being able to control his hand well, he also cant really walk very steadily. we all have to be very patient when we go out with him.. dinner can be disaster... hmm...
this is so touching...may they be blessed with a life of happiness =))
Originally posted by Fatum:is that how it is for all cerebal palsy cases ?
I have never met the girl before, only seen her through some facebook pictures. She looks ...... normal ....
cerebral palsy is very wide spectrum disability, because it depends on which part of the brain was damaged.
so it can range from very mild physical disability, to severe physical and intellectual disability.
Originally posted by lovegoddes:my ex classmate who also has cerebal palsy and paraplegia , also found a girlfriend recently.. aside from his speech and motorskill problem, he thinks like any normal person. but his girlfriend has to be very patient, cause he takes ages to say one sentence, and he cant do simple tasks like opening a can of coke. but i have to say, having a girlfriend changed him alot, he used to suffer from depression, now he is a much happier person.
how i wish i have a gf like her who love the guy so much
i feel that my relationship with my gf has become a one-sided one
she dun seem to love me like be4
Originally posted by Iamhere91:how i wish i have a gf like her who love the guy so much
i feel that my relationship with my gf has become a one-sided one
she dun seem to love me like be4
ohh.. why?