Did you tell your Husband/Wife you married them because ..
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One thing I noticed as I got older was that girls who were getting older, read- late 20's and 30's were marrying guys who they wouldnt have even considered 2 to 3 years beforehand. It was pretty obvious to anyone who knew them that she was settling in order to not miss out.
I know some people who settled and they arent happy. Sure, they have the social comfort of not being single, but they arent happy. They just carry on with life and look after the kids.
My question to those who "settle" for a guy, instead of getting the guy they'd really like to have (or, if you're a guy, and you settled for your "next best" wife), is did you tell your spouse that you would prefer someone else, but you want to get married, so settled for them?
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Who will be so stupid to do that? LOL.
Are u serious in asking such stupid question?
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becos i wanna buy condo woots
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sometimes honesty aint the best policy...
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sometimes really bo bian lor..........
some people got no choice.......even when they kena kick around by their spouse as football at the end of the day, they still stick with their spouse
my uncle is one example la...work in motor cycle shop........his wife leh damm evil....
always say to him eh u so black ....not handsome....why u only earn 2k per month??
and alot of mean things
but he always suck it up and treat her very good...............
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Love.
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That is right! Love comes first
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after having the stupidest reason to get married, is one trying to find a clever way to NOT stay married?
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Yawnzz.....you guys should read more stories about how some young girls considers ROM as "engaged".
And how they think they should still date other males while 'engaged'.
And there isnt talk of HDB flat yet.
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Originally posted by OneWithTheForce:
One thing I noticed as I got older was that girls who were getting older, read- late 20's and 30's were marrying guys who they wouldnt have even considered 2 to 3 years beforehand. It was pretty obvious to anyone who knew them that she was settling in order to not miss out.
I know some people who settled and they arent happy. Sure, they have the social comfort of not being single, but they arent happy. They just carry on with life and look after the kids.
My question to those who "settle" for a guy, instead of getting the guy they'd really like to have (or, if you're a guy, and you settled for your "next best" wife), is did you tell your spouse that you would prefer someone else, but you want to get married, so settled for them?
some chase girls for sex flings/ 1-nite-stands, while some chase girls for marriage long term... -
Originally posted by viciouskitty74:
Yawnzz.....you guys should read more stories about how some young girls considers ROM as "engaged".
And how they think they should still date other males while 'engaged'.
And there isnt talk of HDB flat yet.
hahaha didnt know that but you can also call it love.Those girls must be selfishly in love with themselves to do such thing.
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Originally posted by CannyOng:
Who will be so stupid to do that? LOL.
Are u serious in asking such stupid question?
You will be surprised by the amount of people doing so.
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I will settle for a rich old man about to die.
And I will 'love' him very much. By brewing him really (Cholestrol) rich stews every night.
I will even be nice to his wives and mistresses and plot with them to rotate our 'loving' him with shows of really really good food and lots of sex.
If he feels that the foods are always too enriching, we will try to cook vegetables without soaking out the pesticide.
The veggies will taste really bitter and we can wean him off healthy veggetables dishes.
We will shower him with food, love, happiness and lots of pampering.
When he dies, we will, in the eyes of the society and law, have been good wives and mistresses.
Of course, we will live our lives with lots of his insurance payouts.
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Originally posted by viciouskitty74:
I will settle for a rich old man about to die.
And I will 'love' him very much. By brewing him really (Cholestrol) rich stews every night.
I will even be nice to his wives and mistresses and plot with them to rotate our 'loving' him with shows of really really good food and lots of sex.
If he feels that the foods are always too enriching, we will try to cook vegetables without soaking out the pesticide.
The veggies will taste really bitter and we can wean him off healthy veggetables dishes.
We will shower him with food, love, happiness and lots of pampering.
When he dies, we will, in the eyes of the society and law, have been good wives and mistresses.
Of course, we will live our lives with lots of his insurance payouts.
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Hmmm...any married ppl out there?
best if they answer....
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Originally posted by Jianye:
Hmmm...any married ppl out there?
best if they answer....
You are assuming that none that answered was married? -
if you marry your husband/wife for his/her money will you be stupid enough to tell him/her?
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Originally posted by fireng:
if you marry your husband/wife for his/her money will you be stupid enough to tell him/her?
depends on how you underestimate your spouse intelligience. -
Originally posted by viciouskitty74:
You are assuming that none that answered was married?
Yah....cos for such issue, we dun talk so openly one.....just talk cock only.....no serious answer
might as well dun have this thread....
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Actually this type of thing is very common.
People settle for the 2nd best job, 2nd best house, 2nd best wife/husband..
no big deal..
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Originally posted by fireng:
Actually this type of thing is very common.
People settle for the 2nd best job, 2nd best house, 2nd best wife/husband..
no big deal..
2nd best is actually still okay, but it seems that the no fish, shrimp also can mindset is quite prevalent...
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Originally posted by BEARZAIS:
sometimes really bo bian lor..........
some people got no choice.......even when they kena kick around by their spouse as football at the end of the day, they still stick with their spouse
my uncle is one example la...work in motor cycle shop........his wife leh damm evil....
always say to him eh u so black ....not handsome....why u only earn 2k per month??
and alot of mean things
but he always suck it up and treat her very good...............
Look at it the other way round...if she is 10 some guy would have swept her feet....but it seemed thats not the case. So she only barks....at night.
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Originally posted by OneWithTheForce:
One thing I noticed as I got older was that girls who were getting older, read- late 20's and 30's were marrying guys who they wouldnt have even considered 2 to 3 years beforehand. It was pretty obvious to anyone who knew them that she was settling in order to not miss out.
I know some people who settled and they arent happy. Sure, they have the social comfort of not being single, but they arent happy. They just carry on with life and look after the kids.
My question to those who "settle" for a guy, instead of getting the guy they'd really like to have (or, if you're a guy, and you settled for your "next best" wife), is did you tell your spouse that you would prefer someone else, but you want to get married, so settled for them?
sometime when couple go out together and get used to one another they stayed together but it doesn't mean that it reflect their imaginative "Dream Gals n boys"
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Best don't tell your spouse anything unless it is a good thing because it is going to hit you hard like a boomerang later.
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Originally posted by fireng:
Actually this type of thing is very common.
People settle for the 2nd best job, 2nd best house, 2nd best wife/husband..
no big deal..
2nd best or the best u have at that time?
there is a different