If you're over 35 and still single, are you happy or sad?
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Originally posted by Fatum:
lau chye can be very nice de .....
question is...how lau is lau lol. If like michelle chong or cynthia koh.....thats ok. -
Originally posted by Rock^Star:
question is...how lau is lau lol. If like michelle chong or cynthia koh.....thats ok.those two are some very hot lau chye, no ? ......
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I don tink its the age
It's really the mentality.
I met someone who was 4 years older, but thinks like 5 years younger than me.
:D
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Originally posted by cApitaland:
thats actually just one word
you are right
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fireice also single right?
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TS, the woman should do something to attract the man she likes to her
i think she is just blindly joining in all those social events....
that's why hard to find one
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Originally posted by dragg:
there are people who get depressed after marriage.
marriage do not guarantee happiness.
Good point.You can be unhappy both ways
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Originally posted by Rock^Star:
question is...how lau is lau lol. If like michelle chong or cynthia koh.....thats ok.
Yeah, I know what you mean.I know this group of 5 girls, all between 30-35. Only one is pretty and slim. 3 are overweight and have bellies and thick arms, and the last is in fair shape, but isnt good looking. Of course, only the slim pretty one has guys who ask her out, despite her age, as looks count. But she's too busy getting good pay and travelling her ass off every 2-3 months.
The other girls never get asked out. Ever.
I've never had the balls to ask how they feel about that.
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bottom line, you have money, can support yourself, doesn't need bf or gf.
travel around the world = happy
have enough good friends = happy
age ain't nothing but a number.
my ah ma, already 83, CONSIDER SUPER OLD LIAO.
widow.
but still happy.
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give me her number ill get her hooked up...;-)
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Actually, I'm very happy!
Better single than miserably hooked up and then not being able to do whatever you want or lead the life you wanna because you fear ending it all.
Besides, not all partners are assets... some will eventually prove to be liabilities and become a hindrance.
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Originally posted by Bern.ice:
bottom line, you have money, can support yourself, doesn't need bf or gf.
travel around the world = happy
have enough good friends = happy
age ain't nothing but a number.
my ah ma, already 83, CONSIDER SUPER OLD LIAO.
widow.
but still happy.
Good on you!
And welcome to Club 30!
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Originally posted by OneWithTheForce:
Yeah, I know what you mean.I know this group of 5 girls, all between 30-35. Only one is pretty and slim. 3 are overweight and have bellies and thick arms, and the last is in fair shape, but isnt good looking. Of course, only the slim pretty one has guys who ask her out, despite her age, as looks count. But she's too busy getting good pay and travelling her ass off every 2-3 months.
The other girls never get asked out. Ever.
I've never had the balls to ask how they feel about that.
so moral of story is "keep in shape" lol. Remember to rub the nivea every night and be lubbed deep deep. -
Originally posted by Rhonda:
Actually, I'm very happy!
Better single than miserably hooked up and then not being able to do whatever you want or lead the life you wanna because you fear ending it all.
Besides, not all partners are assets... some will eventually prove to be liabilities and become a hindrance.
you are not speaking the truth
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Originally posted by NG QIBO AARON AUBREY:
you are not speaking the truth
Tsk tsk tsk! Just because you cannot be happy single doesn't mean no one else can.
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Ladies over 30 are pretty screwed in SG when it comes to finding a partner. You see a lot of them in the gym or at yoga centres.
Their chances become better in poorer neighbouring countries, if they don't mind. They should really venture overseas like their SG male counterparts.
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i'm gettin bitter n sad now.
over 35. hard 2 find good man
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btw.. one of the big bosses in my organisation got married at 55..
she seems very very happy now
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i only in early 20s but i like woman in 30s at well. i dun mind living my rest of my life with em. But their established career compared to mine think i got chance meh? i am not in for their money btw
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Dell'amore non si sa
quando viene o se ne va
dell'amore non si sa
quando sara
da dove arrivera(With love you never know
When it comes or if it goes
With love you never know
When it will be there
or from where it will arrive)http://www.chinavbox.cn/show/6QYHV37Q.shtml
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Originally posted by WHISKEYman:
Ladies over 30 are pretty screwed in SG when it comes to finding a partner. You see a lot of them in the gym or at yoga centres.
Their chances become better in poorer neighbouring countries, if they don't mind. They should really venture overseas like their SG male counterparts.
Yeah, they should, but it's hard because they have to lower their expectations a huge amount.
For men, we look mostly at age and appearance, and then some hopefully decent personality. Education and career of the girl not so important.
But most of these ladies would be uni educated, have a decent career, are overweight, not very attractive. Most women want a guy with high social skills, high education or career, something special to attract them.
And they wont get it. They probably would never have anyway cuz of their looks, but now their age is making the nails appear at the edges of the coffin lid.
Strange thing is- most of these ladies dont seem to want to do anything about their appearance. If they put in just 2 months of some daily moderate exercise and some mild calorie restriction in their diet, they will lose a couple of kilos which is pretty good.
Appearance is damn important.
No attractive slim girls are without boyfriend or spouse, unless they have a personality issues.
As far as relationships go, being educated has been a curse for overweight unattractive women. It raises their expectations, yet they already had almost no chance to begin with.
Look at our parents. many of them are unattractive. Such a pairing would never happen in today's society.
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Thank you for being so honest. I'm a guy, so I still can meet some girls, but I also feel the age pressure too and I also feel bitterness sometimes when I see some couples. It's not pretty.
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Over 35 and unmarried for a guy is no big deal, but for a girl it can be a pretty big deal. Women in their mid/late 20s to early 30s still marry guys several years older than them all the time - it is common. But you do not see too many women over 35 getting married unless it is to someone much older (e.g. at least 45 or older). Nowadays because so many women build up their careers it seems almost common to get married much later for both men and women.
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If over 35 and not married count your blessings.
Can play online games wee hours of the night without getting shouted at.
Weekend is yours and yours truly
Can go clubbing.
Can buy a car that you like.
Can iron your clothes when you feel like it.
Don't have to listen to noise about partner's working politics, colleagues and bitch fights.
Can save money on partner's clothes.
Disadvantage : Abit lonely I guess but going out with friends should bandaid that unless they are married.....
Kind Regards
Genie
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i heard that the vietnam wife agencies are getting quite competitive..XD
IMO, 35 and still single is alright.that is because you're a guy. you can get married at 50 and give birth then.meanwhile, enjoy your single life!
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Originally posted by xingg:
i heard that the vietnam wife agencies are getting quite competitive..XD
IMO, 35 and still single is alright.that is because you're a guy. you can get married at 50 and give birth then.meanwhile, enjoy your single life!
Actually meybe in SG ba.... but in Australia... very common for handsome guys to have female partners that are fat. In fact I wouldn't give a 2nd look at them. Meybe becos over here no one cares who you are with so everyone just clicks with whoever they really like lor.Singapore got this problem meh? girls i mean.