Originally posted by ä¸�如就æ»:men can't be trusted .. tsk.
your bamboo pole very power hor...... -_-"
Originally posted by av98m:being 100% honest with women is asking for trouble. sometimes its better to leave out certain details.
something tells me this statement invites trouble as well.
Originally posted by Fatum:I think being a heartlander is a state of mind ...... and it doesn't have anything to do with one's pop culture preferences or certain religious practices .....
I remember the very next day after I came back .... I went for a walk at the zheng hua town centre .... the kopitiams, the wet markets, the fruit stalls, the provision shops, the people ..... I felt I've come .... home.
Pop cultutre preferences or certain religious practices does affect the state of one's mind
That is what I always believe.
Also I noticed there is a pretty wide disparity in thinking between the English & Chinese Ed (our parents generation) and these also affect the pop culture preferences etc.
Oh ya what I find most disgusting is that these men will go to places like Batam, Vietnam or some 3rd world country, get a mistress there and then they proudly say they are saving the poor young girl from vice.
Originally posted by stellazio:oh yes..we have a good living example.. so mr 711..
that quirky gift i got for you, was it useful?
pls on't waste the money. just buy me some chocolate
Originally posted by Fatum:I think being a heartlander is a state of mind ...... and it doesn't have anything to do with one's pop culture preferences or certain religious practices .....
I remember the very next day after I came back .... I went for a walk at the zheng hua town centre .... the kopitiams, the wet markets, the fruit stalls, the provision shops, the people ..... I felt I've come .... home.
good for you. some days I look to my left and right and wonder where the fuck I am.
Originally posted by av98m:I have friends married with kids who do that. :P
i used to be in the airforce, and work in the same office as the pilots.. i think pilots is one of the jobs where they're most likely to have affairs or cheat behind their wives backs..
so much so that stewardess who carries LV's are known as Loose Va....s
yeah ....
they all want numbers and details, to know everything from the past .....
and when you tell them ...... truthfully .... what you've done and with whom .... they can't handle the truth ......
Originally posted by av98m:being 100% honest with women is asking for trouble. sometimes its better to leave out certain details.
honestly, I learned my lesson
Originally posted by SevenEleven:
ladies are suspiscious creature too. They want you to be honest but cannot take the truth...Many years ago when I left the stat board, I HAD to bring some clients to a karaoke. I honesty told her where I was, Who was ith me, ladies hostess beside us etc....... All that she wanted to know....and she ignored me for the next 1 week after that.
Actually I prefer if MPB told me
I won't get angry.
Example of one of my friend's bf is that he had to go to one of those KTVs and one of the girls kept hitting on him, he told my friend and asked if she minds going with him to that place even though it's sleazy. She agreed.
He brought her there, introduced her as his gf and he was not hit on after.
I think this is a bit extreme but at least you know he's being faithful
Originally posted by stellazio:i used to be in the airforce, and work in the same office as the pilots.. i think pilots is one of the jobs where they're most likely to have affairs or cheat behind their wives backs..
so much so that stewardess who carries LV's are known as Loose Va....s
Originally posted by Fatum:yeah ....
they all want numbers and details, to know everything from the past .....
and when you tell them ...... truthfully .... what you've done and with whom .... they can't handle the truth ......
Must see the woman also
But not every woman can handle it
Originally posted by av98m:good for you. some days I look to my left and right and wonder where the fuck I am.
i dun even feel singaporean
Originally posted by SevenEleven:honestly, I learned my lesson
I learnt that the hard way too
Originally posted by av98m:good for you. some days I look to my left and right and wonder where the fuck I am.
You're in someplace where it's filled with PRCs and Indians
Originally posted by elindra:Actually I prefer if MPB told me
I won't get angry.
Example of one of my friend's bf is that he had to go to one of those KTVs and one of the girls kept hitting on him, he told my friend and asked if she minds going with him to that place even though it's sleazy. She agreed.
He brought her there, introduced her as his gf and he was not hit on after.
I think this is a bit extreme but at least you know he's being faithful
this is actually a very good tactic.. the way i see is, you bring the gf there once, gained her trust.. then for subsequent visits, she will trust you.. but you're totally free to cheat on her and she will think you're faithful..
Originally posted by kopiosatu:i dun even feel singaporean
for some bizarre reason I've been getting mistaken as a tourist on weekends.
Originally posted by stellazio:this is actually a very good tactic.. the way i see is, you bring the gf there once, gained her trust.. then for subsequent visits, she will trust you.. but you're totally free to cheat on her and she will think you're faithful..
Ok so I can list you under the list of bastard guys I know
Originally posted by av98m:for some bizarre reason I've been getting mistaken as a tourist on weekends.
You're not the only one
I get that all the time and so does MPB
Originally posted by elindra:
Ok so I can list you under the list of bastard guys I know
eh hello hello.. i was just thinking like a man, and you were just thinking like a woman.
women are from venus, and men are from mars.. thats why we have different perspectives on the same thing..
Originally posted by stellazio:eh hello hello.. i was just thinking like a man, and you were just thinking like a woman.
women are from venus, and men are from mars.. thats why we have different perspectives on the same thing..
Actually for me is I think if a man wants to cheat, no matter how tight a lease you put him on, he is able to cheat la
maybe they should change this quote "behind every successful man is a woman" to "behind every man is a woman, but behind every successful man are womens"..
Originally posted by stellazio:maybe they should change this quote "behind every successful man is a woman" to "behind every man is a woman, but behind every successful man are womens"..
No leh
I find that usually a successful man with women tend to become unsuccessful unless his wife is very understanding
I guess it's not worth getting married if you can even maintain the trust that is needed.
Originally posted by elindra:
No lehI find that usually a successful man with women tend to become unsuccessful unless his wife is very understanding
wife understanding also no use .... the society is not .....
Originally posted by elindra:
Actually for me is I think if a man wants to cheat, no matter how tight a lease you put him on, he is able to cheat la
I agree ...