Originally posted by In_Between_Days:
Thats the thing!
Y would i wanna put up wif all this? Ppl mite argue that we live in a modern society and this sorta thing doesn't realli exist...but there r still peeps out there who live in the stone age...
Moreover wld i wanna put up wif relatives frm either side of the family gossiping behind our backs...looking @ us differently...avoiding us?
It just irks me to get all this crap...so frankly interracial dating or marriage isn't for me...
Personally I don't give a flying f*ck what they think
And if someone stares at us weirdly, I stare right back at them and my husband will always comment loudly "What are they looking at?"
Works like a charm and you should see how paiseh they look.
Family side? I don't give a flying f*ck either
My parents are supportive and that is all that matters
Anyway I did make it clear to the kaypohs that they can gossip what they want behind our backs but if they wanna talk so much about "Why can't you get a chinese guy blah blah" I won't hesitate to cut off all ties with them or even invite them to the wedding
They shut up after and not a peep
Call it rude whatever but it worked like a charm, I guess my mum did tell them that once I get irritated and make up my mind, I mean what I say