wear tampons not virgin...

• huzane89

  8 Feb 08, 14:21

  My female friend is a malay virgin. FYI, she got family at m'sia kampong... Her kampong family say that wearing tampon, she wont be a virgin. True or not? Like, i am oso confused lei...

• Evangel

  8 Feb 08, 16:25

  What kind of logic is this? LOL! Can imagine during her period she would be very messy under. Sex education in singapore is not working man! 19 years old already still dont know, huzane89.

• caleb_chiang

  8 Feb 08, 16:36

  depends on which type...

• T E M P O

  8 Feb 08, 22:17

  yes, that's true. There's a diff between sanitary pads and tampons.
  Sanity pads, are like,pampers lol.
  Tampons, have a "thing" poking out which goes into the vagina to suck up the blood, in other words, for a virgin to use a tampon, it'll break the tissue, hence, virginity is lost.

• New Creation

  8 Feb 08, 22:23

  Originally posted by Evangel:

  What kind of logic is this? LOL! Can imagine during her period she would be very messy under. Sex education in singapore is not working man! 19 years old already still dont know, huzane89.

  
  well Evangel.. ha. ok.. i think we got to be sensitive to the cultural setting in a typical M'sia kampong bah. I mean , they are really good old, simple nice folks. Maybe their thinking is a little conservative bah, but no harm is done.

   

  Actually, nowadays, its hard for the hubby to determine on the wedding night, if his newly wed bride is a virgin or not. I mean, as we know a typical woman may go thru like what 2-3bfs(or more) in her lifetime, so chances are, some form of sexual intercourse has occurred; or some ladies engage in really violent , vigorous sports like cycling, or horse riding thus resulting in accidental tear in the hymen.

   

  I guess, virgin or not, at the end of the day, Guys.. love the woman for who she is at heart. Her past is past. You should see the future together with her.

• T E M P O

  8 Feb 08, 22:25

  Originally posted by New Creation:

  
  well Evangel.. ha. ok.. i think we got to be sensitive to the cultural setting in a typical M'sia kampong bah. I mean , they are really good old, simple nice folks. Maybe their thinking is a little conservative bah, but no harm is done.

   

  Actually, nowadays, its hard for the hubby to determine on the wedding night, if his newly wed bride is a virgin or not. I mean, as we know a typical woman may go thru like what 2-3bfs(or more) in her lifetime, so chances are, some form of sexual intercourse has occurred; or some ladies engage in really violent , vigorous sports like cycling, or horse riding thus resulting in accidental tear in the hymen.

   

  I guess, virgin or not, at the end of the day, Guys.. love the woman for who she is at heart. Her past is past. You should see the future together with her.

  
  
  
  

  Well said, Thumbs up for you !

• rainee

  8 Feb 08, 22:47

  Hymen is a stretchable tissue la...

   

  And it supposedly has an opening in it, otherwise how can the blood flow out every month? So the tampon will enter through this opening...

• New Creation

  9 Feb 08, 09:21

  Originally posted by rainee:

  Hymen is a stretchable tissue la...

   

  And it supposedly has an opening in it, otherwise how can the blood flow out every month? So the tampon will enter through this opening...

  
  Errr.. Ok.. i learnt something new today. Hmm, there is an opening in the Hymen..Eh. confirm?

• Jamcrack1

  9 Feb 08, 12:31

  Tampons aint long enough to break the hymen....

• gunner77

  9 Feb 08, 14:13

  got 1 hole to fark can liao, still care whether virgin anot.

• newcomer

  14 Mar 08, 11:15

  Originally posted by New Creation:

  
  well Evangel.. ha. ok.. i think we got to be sensitive to the cultural setting in a typical M'sia kampong bah. I mean , they are really good old, simple nice folks. Maybe their thinking is a little conservative bah, but no harm is done.

   

  Actually, nowadays, its hard for the hubby to determine on the wedding night, if his newly wed bride is a virgin or not. I mean, as we know a typical woman may go thru like what 2-3bfs(or more) in her lifetime, so chances are, some form of sexual intercourse has occurred; or some ladies engage in really violent , vigorous sports like cycling, or horse riding thus resulting in accidental tear in the hymen.

   

  I guess, virgin or not, at the end of the day, Guys.. love the woman for who she is at heart. Her past is past. You should see the future together with her.

  
  That's a myth!

• rainee

  14 Mar 08, 12:29

  Originally posted by New Creation:

  
  Errr.. Ok.. i learnt something new today. Hmm, there is an opening in the Hymen..Eh. confirm?

  Yes, confirmed la...tampon is not big enough to tear the hymen, it will just stretch it a bit...

• Short Ninja

  14 Mar 08, 12:40

  depending on how loooong and how biggggg the tampon is
• HyuugaNeji

  14 Mar 08, 13:12

  Originally posted by T E M P O:

  yes, that's true. There's a diff between sanitary pads and tampons.
  Sanity pads, are like,pampers lol.
  Tampons, have a "thing" poking out which goes into the vagina to suck up the blood, in other words, for a virgin to use a tampon, it'll break the tissue, hence, virginity is lost.

  
  so most gals (even the very young ones) in singapore are not virgins.