WHY?! My boyfriend masturbates instead of having sex with me
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if he prefers diy over doing it with you,
it could mean that diy is more pleasurable in terms of
maybe less tiring since he's already tired from NS and usually girls want guys to do all the work in sex,
maybe something about sex turned him off it,
and of course the imagining himself with so ans so plus plenty of other reasons.. so go talk to him..
if he doesn't resolve it then he's an idiot and you can start accepting pms.. =x
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说�说去，都是 LJ 惹的祸
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i know. yr bf wants to make u gian for him so he purposely DIY in front of u. then one day when u cant take it high blood pressure body temperature rise u unleash the beast in yrself n u 2 have a splendid night together mooing like cows.
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Originally posted by bryanw:
i know. yr bf wants to make u gian for him so he purposely DIY in front of u. then one day when u cant take it high blood pressure body temperature rise u unleash the beast in yrself n u 2 have a splendid night together mooing like cows.
wtf la, come to tis type of things u sibei clever
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Originally posted by gunner77:
wtf la, come to tis type of things u sibei clever
u think too highly of me. i m nobody. my mummy always taught me to b humble.
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Originally posted by bryanw:
u think too highly of me. i m nobody. my mummy always taught me to b humble.
sexpert
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lol you guys are so funny... anyway, i'll find time to talk to him. Thank you for all your advice/opinion.
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aiya gal gal, i teach u la
when he watching porn that time, u strip naked and stand in front of him
if he no reaction, its either ur figure kns or he is gay
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Maybe he is scurfing gay porn site...
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Go for a much more mature guy lar... stable.. caring.. proven not gay.. experience and willing do with u more then DIY.. know u want very important. Why go for someone still in NS? because still young and horny right? That in most cases...
Trust me.. a mature guy will love first then sex.. for ur bf type likewise the other way round... love sex with u or masturbate first.. .then u're 2nd... or 3rd.. or forth....? i donno...
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u masturbate in front of him while he masturbating lor.. Then both of u masturbate liao see who can tahan the longest.
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Originally posted by gunner77:
sexperthe's mod of sgsexforum mah
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Originally posted by caleb_chiang:
Maybe he is scurfing gay porn site...
am very sure he is straight. :)
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Originally posted by Beachboy136:
Go for a much more mature guy lar... stable.. caring.. proven not gay.. experience and willing do with u more then DIY.. know u want very important. Why go for someone still in NS? because still young and horny right? That in most cases...
Trust me.. a mature guy will love first then sex.. for ur bf type likewise the other way round... love sex with u or masturbate first.. .then u're 2nd... or 3rd.. or forth....? i donno...
oh really? i didnt know abt that... But i think mature guy are soooo buaya... 0.0 -
this is an old issue that many women face. He chose to masturbate over having sex with you does not mean he don't enjoy sex with you or he does not love you or he finds you boring. It has nothing to do with you. Men have sex fantasies that they want to fulfill in their privacy. It's a psychological need more than a physical need.
This also explains why some person prefer to drive their own car instead of having a driver.
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Originally posted by Caitaokue:
this is an old issue that many women face. He chose to masturbate over having sex with you does not mean he don't enjoy sex with you or he does not love you or he finds you boring. It has nothing to do with you. Men have sex fantasies that they want to fulfill in their privacy. It's a psychological need more than a physical need.
This also explains why some person prefer to drive their own car instead of having a driver.
this may be correct in normal circumstances.. but this situation is different leh.. it's like the person hire a driver and then he drives the driver ard! she mentioned that he masturbates infront of her when she wants it.. so its like weird.. -
ask him lah!
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Originally posted by purpledragon84:
this may be correct in normal circumstances.. but this situation is different leh.. it's like the person hire a driver and then he drives the driver ard! she mentioned that he masturbates infront of her when she wants it.. so its like weird..No lah, you never read properly. She never say everytime she wants it, her bf quickly go and masturbate in front of her. She was saying why he masturbate instead of having sex with her. She stays with him over the weekends. Actually hor, her bf has no privacy and room for himself, if computer is waterproof he will do it in the bathroom.
Hire a driver and drive the driver around is more like you go to geylang, pick a pro, go to the room and masturbates in front of the pro instead of having sex. Then pay her money.
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TS, how many times have you done it with your bf?
For all we know, he doesn't even know you are into that part of r/s building - maybe to make sure that he's still a virgin etc...!!!!!
Or maybe he recently caught some diesease that he doesn't wish to transmit to you?!!! NS right??? Ring worms is very common! :)
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Originally posted by Caitaokue:
No lah, you never read properly. She never say everytime she wants it, her bf quickly go and masturbate in front of her. She was saying why he masturbate instead of having sex with her. She stays with him over the weekends. Actually hor, her bf has no privacy and room for himself, if computer is waterproof he will do it in the bathroom.
Hire a driver and drive the driver around is more like you go to geylang, pick a pro, go to the room and masturbates in front of the pro instead of having sex. Then pay her money.
hmm... ya i nv say i want it or dun. and he didn't ask mi either. but when he say that to me, i know he prefer to do it himself so nv say anything further. mayb he thinks that the process is too troblesome...
yes we are together all the time. so i shouldn't blame him then. he also doesn't wanna do it in front of me de ba....
Thanks....
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how you know he prefer to DIY... Maybe he thinks you don't want leh?
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Originally posted by eagle:
how you know he prefer to DIY... Maybe he thinks you don't want leh?
er... if i dun want, i will let him know de. just can feel that he prefer DIY.... -
one word of advise for you, give him rooms to do things he wants. In camp there are stresses and no privacy, so don't add to that. He will appreciate you for that. Ask him would he prefer you not to stay over for a weekend or two. I know it's difficult for you, but that the sacrifice that will win his heart.
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i guess maybe you say dun wan too many times till he lazy to ask anymore.
but at least this still shows that he respects you and your decision, and not force anything upon you if you refuse.
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everytime eat chicken rice also sian.