Questions on Homosexuality?
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Ah... There are must be lots of curiously about the gay circle... One of the purpose of this forum is to allow conversation between the gays and the straights... In general, we fear of the unknown... Hence, allowing such conversion will help to bridge the gap between the 2...
I might not be able to address all issues... But I will try to address it as objectively as possible... -
wat do gays do?
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what do straights do?Originally posted by sgboy2004:wat do gays do?
almost the same, except when it comes to sexual attraction and sexual intercourse... -
I think what sgboy meant is like how intercourse is done and stuffs...Originally posted by earthlings73:what do straights do?
almost the same, except when it comes to sexual attraction and sexual intercourse...
and what do gays look for in fellow gays..and how are they attracted to one another?
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Oh... Why are straights so horny?
For the sex portion, I will borrow a response from one of the gay website:
Not all gay men do that you know!
You seem really terrified at the thought of having anal sex with another guy! And you know what, it is perfectly normal to feel like that!
Most people are worried and afraid of things they havenÂ’t tried before. I think you know that you can also have fun with another guy in bed besides having anal sex. There are plenty of other things you can do, like oral sex, licking, kissing, sucking, rubbing each other, massage, touching, mutual masturbation, cuddlingÂ…. Use your imagination and experiment, you get the idea!
Many guys think that gay men only have anal sex. That is not true. Studies in other countries have shown that only something like 40% – 60% of gay men have anal sex. So you are not alone!
But if you still wish to try anal sex, it may be a good idea to first talk to your partner about it, and discuss what is comfortable for you, without either one of you feeling pain or discomfort. ItÂ’s also useful to talk about safer sex, and introduce the topic of using condoms and water-based lube when youÂ’re doing it for the first time.
Also, whatÂ’s most important is that you have fun that is enjoyable both for yourself and your partnerÂ… & make it safer fun too!
As for attraction part, it's just like how straights are attracted to the opposite gender. We look at face, body, personality, etc, etc... -
I'm freaked out..
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so desu neh
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ewww anal sex just sounds digusting. lesbian sex is better. gays have it worse when it comes to sex, lesbians can use toys and have more variety
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how u noe? u tried gay sex b4?Originally posted by The man who was death:ewww anal sex just sounds digusting. lesbian sex is better. gays have it worse when it comes to sex, lesbians can use toys and have more variety -
I hate anal sex to be honest! ha.. Dont let my partner know!Originally posted by The man who was death:ewww anal sex just sounds digusting. lesbian sex is better. gays have it worse when it comes to sex, lesbians can use toys and have more variety -
sounds pain.Originally posted by earthlings73:I hate anal sex to be honest! ha.. Dont let my partner know! -
not trying to stereotype or anything.. but most of the gay people i've met are really gay.. as in really happy and friendly.. nice etc. they are the nicer people around on the whole.
anyways, would you consider changing sex so that you can have a more positive self image when you have a sexual relationship with guys being gay? or is that like.. hmm.. i don't know.. feeling more female? -
A very very good question!Originally posted by coffeeortea:not trying to stereotype or anything.. but most of the gay people i've met are really gay.. as in really happy and friendly.. nice etc. they are the nicer people around on the whole.
anyways, would you consider changing sex so that you can have a more positive self image when you have a sexual relationship with guys being gay? or is that like.. hmm.. i don't know.. feeling more female?
1) Gays/Lesbians are not transexuals
Gays/Lesbians = Mentally and physically men/women
Transgender = Mentally men/women but physically women/men
Transexuals (thx to heng@ for reminding) = operation to physically align physical gender with mental gender
2) Gays are not necessary more feminine (even though there might be a correlation).. Just like there are straights who are not 100% masculine.. There are 2 continuum we are talking about here..
Homosexuals - Bisexuals - Heterosexuals
Feminine - Androgenous - Masculine
Being in one category in the first continuum does not necessitate him/her to fall automatically into it's (seemingly) associated category.. You can have feminine straights (e.g., michel gondry, baz, etc).. You can have masculine gays (e.g., me! )
3) You can't tell gays from straights unless they are willing to out to you.. (Minus those who intentionally dress in certain way or behave in certain manner to out themselves)