Originally posted by Eddie Lee:How are Asian men more independent???
Social Security???
I have nothing against Asian males, but they tend to live with their parents much longer than white guys.How is that being more independent?
They tend to stay with parents is due to the reason i gave aove and also asians tend to me more into family..
it has nothing to do with independence. u must understand that most asian societies work on meritocracy
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OK I'm totally confused now. Your statements seem to contradict each other. I'm not sure what you are trying to say.
First you said "Asian men are definitely more independent s they dont have SOCIAL SECURITY as with the white guys".
Then you said" it has nothing to do with independence".
Asians are the master race.. not some anglo-saxon from Germany. lol.. kidding.
anyways... Cultural difference. They both branch out differently how we view things and take things to measure.How we respect or see others. I give it 25 more yrs and u will see all kind of problems cropping out from alot of these western culture of individualism n all that good stuff. No wonder Fundamantelists Islamists Jihadists Terrorists wants to bring the jihad to them. =P If we cant join em.. doesnt mean we cant blow em up. lol
Japan had some silly notion about being the master race a few years ago. I heard that didn't go very well :P
You guys think too much. How about putting your free time thinking how to better yourself.?
Living with or away from parents isn't an indicator of independence, BUT there are people who live with their parents because they can't run their own lives properly without intervention from mum and dad.
Similarly, you may not live in the same house but your parents may still dictate the way you live and even whom you date. You don't have to live together with your family to maintain strong ties with them. And enough of saying that "Western society" is the
antithesis of everything Asian - the Catholic Church for instance places a lot of importance on the family unit.
Originally posted by Stucktoes:Thats where you are wrong. Living longer with parents doesn't mean not being independent. Its simple an Asian tradition that the closer the families live together, the better so as to maintain the closeness within the families and also so that all the three generations can meet up for dinner and etc. Thats tradition of most Asian society, like it or not, we are born as Asians, so we simply follow it.
Why do you think the government make flats cheaper to married couples if they are living near their elderly parents in the same area?
In Western society, its usually this case, once the boy turns a certain age, he moves out. And when he does, its not simply moving out, he might move very far off miles away, sometimes even crossing states. But thats simply the way that is. Everyone wants freedom. For us, when we reach a certain age, our parents want us to live together but they do not meddle in our affairs, they can give advice but they dont make decisions for us. So ultimately, living together with parents isn't a very accurate gauge of a male's independence.
Dude,
And you think your parents stop pampering you after you've grown up ?
In their eyes, you'll always be their baby boy. Like it or not.
Your ethnicity has nothing to do with living with your parents.
The Asians who are born and grew up in Western countries, they leave their parent's nest when they are young adults. And it doesn't mean the ties are cut. Relationships are closely maintained, just the proximity has changed.
It's all about the culture.
Originally posted by BadzMaro:Why.. i find cum on my face.. for once , making some sort of sense with his statement.
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Originally posted by Kuali Baba:Living with or away from parents isn't an indicator of independence, BUT there are people who live with their parents because they can't run their own lives properly without intervention from mum and dad.
Similarly, you may not live in the same house but your parents may still dictate the way you live and even whom you date. You don't have to live together with your family to maintain strong ties with them. And enough of saying that "Western society" is the
antithesis of everything Asian - the Catholic Church for instance places a lot of importance on the family unit.
Yes we should not get fixated about this living or not living with parents.
There are some who live with their parents as young adults but r able to make their own decisions, in a mature way. This is because they recognize their situation (ie. high chance of overdependence/ inability to take care of oneself/ etc), and proactively do somethin about it.
However, it isnt difficult to see how many SG duds fail to see thru their disadvantaged situation of living with parents and continue to leech and depend on their parents and stay in their comfort zone. And before they realize it, their SG chicks run away with some white dude who's stopped suckling on his mummy's milk since he was 18. It's just too bad, suckers
This thread's completely took a turn from comparing chinese boys with whites to living with parents and moving out. Nice derail lol.
i can't help but notice this trend in asians that we like to compare alot.
young or old.
not sure if the westerners are like this too
Obviously not with the west, that's why Asian douchebag females (majority) just aren't worth it. It'll be better in life to get someone from outside this continent.
Lol.
Originally posted by Chris1988:i can't help but notice this trend in asians that we like to compare alot.
young or old.
not sure if the westerners are like this too
i have yet to come across a forum that hates thier men and women as they do here in Singapore.
i find it extremely amusing .. maybe i should put into my essay , this may be one of the downside of an authoritarian state after decades of stability and progress.
You'd be a highly respected critic lol.
interesting thread...
Originally posted by Kuali Baba:
Things is like that because all along we are all looking up on ang mors. A lot of people always think no matter what thing ang mor sure win or do better. An example is: Products from China people hesistate or reject. Products from USA everybody buy.
How can a person think too much while he only have a narrow brain..? :p
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Originally posted by fifteen:Things is like that because all along we are all looking up on ang mors. A lot of people always think no matter what thing ang mor sure win or do better. An example is: Products from China people hesistate or reject. Products from USA everybody buy.
we already developed a prejudice towards and against some things.
like why we dislike PRC although there are good ones, and why ppl always trust angmohs.
the truth is that not all PRC ppl are annoying, not all PRC products suck, and angmohs aren't all that reliable.
Originally posted by Eddie Lee:Japan had some silly notion about being the master race a few years ago. I heard that didn't go very well :P
Japanese feel superior to others only when you come live in Japan.The moment you land at Narita you are are tacked as a 'gaijin' and expected to speak basic Japanese